My Heart is Just for You

I love you more than life itself
But I'm afraid to love.
My heart is like the fragile wings
Of a tiny little dove.

Three things of every kind:

Three things of every kind: Three things of life that once gone, never come back: Time, Words & Opportunity Three things of life that must not be lost: Peace, Hope & Honesty. Three things of life that are most valuable: Love, Self-confidence & Friends Three things of life that are never sure: Dreams, Success & Fortune Three things that make a man: Hard Work, Sincerity & Commitment Three things of life that destroy a man: Wine, Pride & Anger I asked the Lord to bless you, as I prayed for you today, to guide you and protect you, as you go along your way... His love is always with you, His promises are true, and when we give Him all our cares, you know He will see us through.

MARRIAGE WOES...

Man: Is there any way for long life?
Dr: Get married.
Man: Will it help?
Dr: No, but the thought of long life will never come.
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Why do couples hold hands during their wedding?
It's a formality just like two boxers shaking hands before the fight begins!
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Wife: Darling today is our anniversary, what should we do?
Husband: Let us stand in silence for 2 minutes.
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It's funny when people discuss Love Marriage vs Arranged.
It's like asking someone, if suicide is better or being murdered.
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It is difficult to understand GOD. He makes such beautiful things as women
and then he turns them into Wives.
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If u r married please ignore this msg,
for everyone else: Happy Independence Day
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Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you say.
After marriage, he'll fall asleep before you finish.
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There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic banking.
It's called marriage.
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Girlfriends r like chocolates,
taste good anytime.
Lovers r like PIZZAS, Hot n spicy, eaten frequently.
Husbands r like leftovers, eaten when there's no choice.
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Man receives telegram: Wife dead-should be buried or cremated?
Man: Don't take any chances. Burn the body and bury the ash.
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Q: Why dogs don't marry?
A: Because they are already leading a dog's life!
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There was this guy who told his woman that he loved her so much that he would
go through hell for her. They got married and now he is going thru hell.
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Fact of life: One woman brings you into this world crying & the other ensures you
continue to do so for the rest of your life!
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Q: Why doesn't law permit a man to marry a second woman?
A: Because as per law you cannot be punished twice for the same offence!
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Here comes the Ultimate One :)
Prospective husband: Do you have a book called 'Man, The Master of Women'?
Salesgirl: The fiction department is on the other side, sir.

A TOUCHING LOVE STORY...

10th Grade:-
As I sat there in English class,
I stared at the girl next to me.
She was my so called 'best friend'.
I stared at her long, silky hair,
and wished she was mine.
But she didn't notice me like that,
and I knew it.
After class,
she walked up to me and asked me for
the notes she had missed the day before.
I handed them to her.She said 'thanks'
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her, I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

11th grade:-
The phone rang. On the other end,
it was her. She was in tears,
mumbling on and on about how
her love had broke her heart.
She asked me to come over
because she didn't want to be alone, So I did.
As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her
soft eyes, wishing she was mine.
After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie,
and three bags of chips,
she decided to go home.
She looked at me, said 'thanks'
and gave me a kiss
on the cheek..I want to tell her,
I want her to know that
I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

Senior year:-
One fine day she walked to my locker.
'My date is sick' she said,
'hes not gonna go' well,
I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade,
we made a promise that
if neither of us had dates,
we would go together just as 'best friends'.
So we did.
That night, after everything was over,
I was standing at her front door step.
I stared at her as She smiled at me
and stared at me with her crystal eyes.
Then she said- 'I had the best time, thanks!'
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

Graduation:-
A day passed, then a week, then a month.
Before I could blink, it was graduation day.
I watched as her perfect body
floated like an angel
up on stage to get her diploma.
I wanted her to be mine-but
she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.
Before everyone went home,
she came to me in her smock and hat,
and cried as I hugged her.
Then she lifted her head from my shoulder
and said- 'you're my best friend,
thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

Marriage:-
Now I sit in the pews of the church.
That girl is getting married now.
and drive off to her new life,
married to another man.
I wanted her to be mine,
but she didn't see me like that,
and I knew it.
But before she drove away,
she came to me and said 'you came !'.
She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

Death:-
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin
of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.
At the service, they read a diary entry
she had wrote in her high school years.
This is what it read:
'I stare at him wishing he was mine,
but he doesn't notice me like that,
and I know it.
I want to tell him,
I want him to know that
I don't want to be just friends,
I love him but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
I wish he would tell me he loved me !
.........'I wish I did too...'

I thought to my self, and I cried.

HOPE ALL THE LOVERS WILL LEARN A LESSON FROM THIS STORY...

"Portrait of a Friend"

I can't give solutions to all of life's problems, doubts,
or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will
search for answers.

I can't change your past with all it's heartache and pain,
nor the future with its untold stories.
But I can be there now when you need me to care.

I can't keep your feet from stumbling.
I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.

Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine;
Yet I can share in your laughter.

Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;
I can only support you, encourage you,
and help you when you ask.

I can't prevent you from falling away from friendship,
from your values, from me.
I can only pray for you, talk to you and wait for you.

I can't give you boundaries which I have determined for you,
But I can give you the room to change, room to grow,
room to be yourself.

I can't keep your heart from breaking and hurting,
But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces
and put them back in place.

I can't tell you who you are.
I can only love you and be your friend.

I promise to try to do all of these things
and be the best friend I can be from now on

A BEST FRIEND

A best friend
is always there,
whether you need advice,
or a pep talk,
or even a shoulder to cry on.

A best friend
listens with her heart
and is always honest with you,
even though the truth
may not be
what you want to hear.

A best friend
knows all your secrets,
understands your fears
shares your dreams.

A best friend
never stops believing in you
even if you give up
on yourself.
you are
that kind of friend
to me.
And no matter what happens,
you always will be.

You are my best friend....
my forever friend.

The best poem of 2008

This poem was nominated by UN as the best poem of 2008,

Written by an
African Kid




When I born, I black
When I grow up, I black
When I go in Sun, I black
When I scared, I black
When I sick, I black
And when I die, I still black

And you white fellow
When you born, you pink
When you grow up, you white
When you go in sun, you red
When you cold, you blue
When you scared, you yellow
When you sick, you green
And when you die, you gray

And you calling me colored?

Friends

Friends

Friends are people who love each other,
forgive and forget one way or another.
Care no matter what,
not an ‘if’, ‘and’ or ‘but’.
Do things without thinking,
that hurt people without blinking.
It becomes to late to forgive and forget,
and loose the feeling of when they first met.
When they think the friendship is done,
the fighting is over and what starts is the fun.
But sometimes thats not always the case,
the person that got hurt never wants to see the others face.
And so the friendship comes to an end,
except for occasional glances they rarely send.
Phone numbers get deleted and fights occasionally occur,
Memories fade and become a blur.
Untill not a single word is said,
the hating goes on even after there dead.
So the story ends with a sad goodbye,
and both of them think back and ask themselves ‘why?’.
They see eachother in heaven and begin to smile,
then they remember why they were mad all that while.
God is watching and has wanted the same,
for such a long time he’s tired of this game.
God has talked to them but it didn’t do anything,
and since they got there the angels would not sing.
They keep there distance and including this,
there old friendship they will always miss.
They keep on hating and it’s still unending,
what they dont realize is that friendship is a blessing.
The message of this is to never hate,
the friends that you have are your fate.

SaY I LOVe yoU To yoUR LoVEd OnEs

When U Were Only 5 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..

U Asked Me: "What Is It?"

When U Were 15 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..

U Blushed.. U Look Down And Smile..

When U Were 20 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..

U Put Ur Head On My Shoulder And

Hold My Hand.. Afraid That I Might Dissapear..

When U Were 25 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..

U Prepare Breakfast And Serve It In

Front Of Me, And Kiss My Forhead N

Said : "U Better Be Quick, Is's Gonna Be Late.."

When U Were 30 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..

U Said: "If U Really Love Me, Please

Come Back Early After Work.."

When U Were 40 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..

U Were Cleaning The Dining Table And

Said: "Ok Dear, But It's Time For U To Help Our Child With His/Her

Revision.."

When U Were 50 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..

U Were Knitting And U Laugh At Me..

When U Were 60 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..

U Smile At Me..

When U Were 70 Yrs Old. I Said I Love U..

We Sitting On The Rocking Chair With Our Glasses On.. I'm Reading Your

Love Letter That U Sent To Me 50 Yrs Ago..

With Our Hand Crossing Together..

When U Were 80 Yrs Old, U Said U Love Me!

I Didn't Say Anything But Cried..

That Day Must Be The Happiest Day Of My Life! Because U Said U Love

Me!!!

Please Appreciate Your Loved Ones.. Say "I Love You" To Them When U

Have The Chance Now!!!

7 shades of love

"Love in the heart was not meant there to stay. Love is not love till you give it away". For love to be ever lasting and eternal every one should be aware of the different stages of love and know its significance. Following are the different phases through which you will travel in your love life and only those who pass it will have an endless love.

ATTRACTION
Attraction can be defined as something, which is more than friendship and is a step towards getting ready for a relationship. Now attraction is of two types:

a. Physical Attraction - happens when your body reacts to another person. Heart rate increases; temperature rises, palms get sweaty; stomach flutters; throat tightens; etc. This is what will tell you that you are ready for the first contact and also whether you are comfortable in the company of the other person.

b. Emotional Attraction - develops next if the circumstances are right. After being drawn to a person physically, you then begin to come closer. If you find you have things in common -- hobbies, ideologies, career, education, or some other common ground -- then an emotional attraction starts to form. Sometimes an emotional attraction can occur even when a physical attraction does not. And in this case, the bond will be stronger between the two who connect, since no preconceived notions based on physical appearance has occurred.

INTIMACY
Intimacy is something, which a person experiences when you learn to trust and believe your lover. It is a close association with another person of the deepest nature. You share you thoughts, feelings, and dreams. You feel free to discuss everything with this person and you are absolutely comfortable in his company. Thus intimacy develops gradually. If you can't establish intimacy with your partner, your relationship may work for a while, but is unlikely to endure throughout the years. Intimacy is actually the path to a true, healthy and beautiful relationship.

ROMANCE
Romance is the essence of a relationship. Without romance your love life will not exist. Romance is the true identity of your love. It brings out your true self and helps you be a better lover, husband and partner. Romance is a celebration of the life you live as part of a couple. It springs naturally and originates from within your heart. It makes you do things that you possibly couldn't have imagined to do otherwise. It shows you who you are and reminds you of the role you play in a relationship. Romance is not responsibility but it is caring about your responsibilities towards your lover and partner. Romance is the appreciation of two people who are celebrating the lucky coincidence that they found each other.

PASSION
The third stage is passion, which basically means a desire for another person, which has grown to an intensity that can't be ignored. This is often where an emotional relationship turns into a physical relationship. The passion stage is very important. For from here you will understand the true meaning and nature of your relationship. If there is no passion then its best to let go but if there is passion in your relationship then it is time to go on to the next stage.

COMMITMENT
The last stage is commitment. This is when you know that you want to spend your whole life with this person you love and you can do anything for him. It is when your whole world just revolves round your lover and you take a pledge to remain true to your mate throughout good and bad times, be by his side whenever he needs you.

• 
  eyes meet,
  it is like a touch...
  a spark...
  ------------ ----Attraction

• 
  the touch of the eyes
  was as if,
  it was...
  ------------ ------ Infatuation

• the flame
  of her body is felt,
  his breath starts igniting...
  ------------ ------ Love

• she touches him like a whisper,
  as if silence is mixed in her eyes,
  he prays, a little consciously,
  a little unconsciously. ..
  ------------ ------ Reverence

• he is entangled on her path,
  entangled in her arms
  love now turns to...
  ------------ ------ Worship

• 
  living is an obsession...
  dying is an obsession...
  apart from this there is no peace...
  ------------ ------ Obsession

• let him rest in the lap of death...
  let him drown his body in her soul...
  ------------ ------ Death